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1, intimate knowledge and her boyfriend, the development of good, what is he good, but it is too save the old poor-mouth. man I understand the pressure, but has said no money, I am irritated. usually take to the streets to buy him milk, but also the first call money, just 3,4 blocks a cup of something. shopping to buy things I paid for my own initiative, did not expect him, so are usually cursory shopping, saving money. He has just bought a car, spending large more call money yesterday, he came to my house, my dad let him open to get my Jiujia altar wine, He was not happy, because the road is long fuel, but still went, back when my dad asked him to drive to my house door, residential road is quite narrow, he was less likely to reverse, because inside the home and found the seat has a place somewhere in wine led to injuries, he got a little morning message saying the car he bought was not easy, but We are convenient.
I do not know how to persuade him that new car is distressed, you can not say wow, I feel bad. One day did not contact me, send text messages to him at night, he returned to the sentence I let him go to bed early, did not say anything else. I want to ask: in the end is the car is important, or I important? he cares about me, if I marry him, the worst result? more money if he, will be poor-mouth, will not generous point? I know that life is very real, but do not want all day long for this annoying enough to spend money on line you can also save point, get married, I definitely AA's, now that is.
Love your man to give you the principle of spending money: he has, you need to. do not love your man you do not want to spend money on the grounds that: you asked me to, but my money is not grow on trees, why not only willing to find a light body love my woman? mm so I do not think you of this boyfriend, I suggest you leash waistband, you and your future is murky.
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2, I 25 he was 24, college students, at first my family did not agree to agree later, he always thought that I'm home, his parents are easy-going. graduation, made an appointment to stay in Beijing, I stayed for two years and then continued to graduate school, his foreign , account of Beijing, but the workplace is not fixed, graduated two years for nearly twenty cities. these two years back we had a falling countless, countless hours back, both sides feel very sad. I want to get married, he would not, want him to change jobs back to Beijing, he would not, want him around, he would not. He wanted me to develop my career well, and then wait for him back careers to marry me.
July I prepared to graduate school term ends, the same day he transferred to the Shanghai headquarters of the elderly. leadership is very high regard, training him, he is more busy than before, the total business. I want to drop out to go to Shanghai to find work because he chose the cause I choose love. I can not think of another solution. formalities former friend tried to persuade me seriously, I am very hesitant way, my future will be affected, he will feel pressure, you say?
dropped out to find He? Oh, her career as a man, uh, did not save the people do not save, you can go.
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3, there is still doing door-law do? my only two daughters, I am a big girl , the family always hoped I could to marry, I have a boyfriend, his family just two children, he is a big child, his family poor, his parents are not two thousand a month income, he has no expertise, high school graduation his family has no money to do things for us and dragging. forty-five my home worth hundreds of thousands of houses, restaurants, a small factory, home, life and death now I can not agree to marry, told him to come to my house, his family also do not agree. Shun sister how to do? family said that if he loves me, that I can sacrifice, but he did not skill, I even married into his family life is difficult, and he came to my house accepted my existing business and property. boyfriend has this thing is hesitant.
Uxorilocal to engage in voluntary, is generally unitary children at home, , his family is not happy, you have to do nothing. And now Uxorilocal are not so strict, that is the door-law, wife and wife's father in the family still takes a god-like men pulled, not everywhere? Do you boyfriend and his family or a small string ah mind.
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4, and her husband separated in two places more than two years, children 1 year of age, feeling good, he was more accommodating me. I work in the university town, stability, easy. He it yourself in the provincial capital a few years ago is not very good, and now a little improvement, to buy his house, a mortgage. mother with children present with me, stumbling along, often showing to take their children to return home to take care of the provincial capital, or simply old man and children (has engaged) in mind. I went to her husband within six months of his commitment, but hesitate to go there may be unemployment (short or long term), but does not move her mother to be see, her husband and unstable economy (Fortunately, We need both the economic burden of the elderly); do not go, where the rooms have to sell, encouraging the development of her husband to come here, and if his career will not ring true, I not sin? want to again and again a year or two to choose the moving, fear of renewable accident.
better to let her mother take the child to the provincial capital, ah, too something, why do it?
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5, My boyfriend and I are 26, are rural people, from the junior year of college love, has 5 years. I worked for 3 years he was 2 years. After graduation, he signed state-owned enterprises in the town, because I quit after six months to me (before graduation he tried to find a job where I work, unsuccessful). I did not agree but he insisted to me. to not find a job after February. New Year back home a father and his illness, for which he borrowed money .4 students discharged he returned his father, but also by the students of money (and I 4000) Learning computer code, the burden of the middle of life I .9 his graduation month, a monthly salary of 3500 to find work smoothly, the work done less than a year after the new ones are 6000 a month. He hard to better themselves, love me, married to save money to buy a house, I moved. now he just passed the trial period, generated frictions with the department manager, to resign. His character is too straight, do not understand relationships. afraid to re-find a job for his resignation, which he felt in the dry are into, why bullied? I now pay less than his 1000, from him, I have been very frugal. was going to get married next year, but now fear he is not give me happiness? how he can not so impetuous? another: another good good to me, good character, regular housework, for I am very obedient.
told him: they might in the relationship between a unit and colleagues, and back to 10 places are still no success.
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6, my husband and children's issues in the treatment of frequent disputes, I think he was very extreme, when a child crying for spanking a couple of months, five months of that sticky, and a fight he was crying. Such many things, I can not understand that he is not a psychological problem. but he always blame me spoiled child (child is only six months), but also laugh at my parents put my brother spoiled, because my brother to learn bad . that only a dozen children to educate.
seems that you are a man playing out of his parents. you ask him, can remember his parents beat him the first time what is time? 3 years? 5 years ? Anyway, do not believe he is a cis 1,2 months beginning beaten. Zhesi unpleasant to the child outside the body to Caesar, the level is too time and told him to give Dangdie, Tai Weiqu child.
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7, I 23 A City in his understanding of 26,04, 06 graduate school, he went more than two thousand kilometers outside the city B, and he has a crush on me, 07 years to my confession, then began a long distance relationship I was .07 A test City of graduate students, so I was admitted he was prepared to return to A city to find work. he was more inclusive and me, but my last exam the day before yesterday, angry at him because of emotional instability, when he did not control the temper, not like before Let me, and my big fight. As pressure and this one, I exam disorders, only transfers to the C City College graduate. his professional counterparts in the C city can not find work, he once did not want I came to study the work of the city away B, was strongly opposed to me and my family, he finally figured out, that are willing to wait three years to compensate me.
November this year, the city had just sat more than 30 B C hour train to the city to see me, still are caring for me now, together in the economy also gave me a lot of help, (he income of 7-8 million homes in rural areas, under the conditions) did not present home opposition, because I do not know what that fight, but I always fight to heart, that he does not this situation, the practice immature, it is difficult to forgive him. This makes me a man entrusted to you for life?
President are people too, can make mistakes thing. Man look at the mainstream, see generally, if the fight would drive quarrel, are temperament dictates, and almost no reliable association can. you could not help myself, is the fact. So, that thing to forget, Misfortune blessing of the Forest, you may be feeling that the future transit.
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8, her boyfriend and I met online in January after having sex. is communication more than six months have seen both parents. my undergraduate teachers, one of the highest income in our town. looks good handsome shape. her boyfriend at home, unemployed college graduates, no source of income, has been me. but he never asked me for money. We have a common topic , almost loving, he is very considerate to me but a bad temper, a little machismo. The most I can not stand is his narrow-minded, and ex-boyfriend, not allowed to contact me about all the people (I've never in touch with ex-boyfriend) , and I do not like the Internet (he is not online.) I do not read the opposite sex if one out, he will explode. Originally, I coax him, and now no matter, and to mention breaking up, he was relaxed. know me before He was helping them, after he knew me very specific, very obedient and very traditional.
because I am not a virgin, he is very concerned about. a quarrel on the words that hurt each other, because of small noisy last night, I mentioned to break up, He actually written agreement, the spirit told me to pay ten thousand dollars damages! my signature, and he began to coax me so that I do not tell my mom that I still do not care so just watch him. I'm much better condition than he was, I than he 2 years old, considered big? he thought more mature, more like my weak by his care. I want to get married, and I 26 he was 24, he stated in his year, which is not suitable for marriage, but early next year to buy a house. This is mediated export it? Shun sister, this man deserves my treasure? can be seen as narrow-minded man he care? how can I change him? or early leave him?
you want to keep me for 2 years, and I care about what your eyes looked straight out. between your relationship good, but you must take my shift the original words to him, let me shut up and go your own research.
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9, has been that the woman if he can get better, would not have a husband, do not care about other people's eyes. But we live in a society, to encounter a lot of things to show single vulnerable: No contacts! I think that if there is one condition husband a good point, is not able to better. now getting on in years, a sense of crisis very nominal .38. have been married, have children, single 5 years, this situation can not find what conditions is good for him. life is very full, what is the reach of outsiders. They say I'm single, conditions, Ye Hao, should someone about ah? be how can there be, ah, I was their home for dinner every day. do not know how to point of the opposite sex more than friends, more colorful life? Going up? single in the end do?
another, there is a lover, he has a perfect family. I was moved to the truth, the divorce is impossible. man Well, you know, want to Pa with. I do not want him to leave, see a couple of days, pretty good, every day, see to finished, so do not to the marriage. have encountered things helplessness, older sense of crisis and fear of marriage, and contradictions.
so old it had to, if you have enough money, you do not need a husband because all men can do, can spend money. And do not spend money on the feelings of the marriage are likely to do.
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10, I divorced 5 years, two years ago to pay for a boyfriend, and looks as all had to go. exchanges and found that he was headstrong and selfish, above, a mother of four sisters, mother, sister and would like to find a rich lover as one of the women, because he is a civil servant, not earn much, to just read for the University's daughter. I'm with him I'm out the cost of the whole, my heart also uncomfortable, is not much, this is attitude. and he was determined not to accept my adopted daughter, so relations lumps. I was in unintended pregnancies, the fertility fast despair first pregnancy, I must be born, but he determined not to that would affect his life. After painful things in several times he found it spotless, said before walking to get married to have children, I angrily refused, to cool him for a while to say.
he did not during pregnancy Wen do not ask, I'm calm as the birth of my precious children. planed the day he produced several sister ventral view, and a look pretty long, like his family daughters, sisters, happy, charge him to come see. he sister scolded him discredited by a few, but he dead, saying that I insulted him, never looking back, all suffering is caused by my daughter and resolutely turning a blind eye. daughters do not provide proof of his birth certificate. I was also prepared daughter has a father, abandoned his possessions and shared habits of his life to endure, if I let him aside to cool. Soon, I am a strong and optimistic, and now I have to make compromises for the daughter has a father ? I was not too strong personality too independent, or was he not a man?
you're looking for is such a person, you for their own children, he lived for him and his daughter, so of course he is not happy with you again raising your precious children. You have the ability to keep students have ability, he thought. Now, you or when the child father dead, get an idiot to teach their children experience the life, unfortunately, it is better to tell the child: she is God sent the baby, not dad. Anyway, since you can feed him, they can raise daughter and property to their own flesh and blood, not blood relations do not give without loving you. can not marry with the Ah, Ah and a wedding pulled out, another nurse and unselfish free stepmother used.
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11, married more than a year, has never lived in different cities to work, can understand each other, but now the financial crisis spread to Japan to me, and I think another advantage of the opportunity sectors, on the other hand is not going to work at night, and day and night upside down so I am powerless, but prospects for a new job do not know how, he is in this consideration does not support me. I feel extremely contradictory . I have thirty, and then not much momentum may struggle, he always said I period of enthusiasm, nothing can be done not long, the facts are indeed true. I've always wanted a child, and now there is no ability to do at home to raise children Therefore, work is also wanted for a relaxed environment, the future children will not want to work in a quandary.
want to have children, is the pressure may need a little work environment. but the choice of what kind of life, general and words, we need a person has good quality: what should be down to earth, stick to the others are no longer insist, you can be a success.
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12, has been a very strange, intimate objects back, I refused them all before, I also feel sorry for people, after all, people like you, I want to give yourself opportunities, you can still not accept it. I was 22, our habit of early marriage, I look not bad conditions, the heart gas a little high, like find a good point, but the general condition of my family. by Shun Shun sister's spouse, I find a similar, may have the basic conditions, not smart, hey, ah ~ really hard to choose one I am more satisfied with the existing to know three years, only occasional contact, he is very wise and have a career car and room, can be very helping them, I knew I could not help this man, and not very line of his (PS: want to laugh to think of it, he also considered tall and burly, how to hh)
I am satisfied with other aspects of him. I have been looking for to manage my people, I was too wild, you need the person is me. with him, see friends, I basically was to give him face, even if with this marriage, the risk is great, friends say I took a fancy to his condition. have been traveling back to the decision not to contact him, he still contact me. He is an occasional fool of me now, all I know, I know that to love yourself, you can not stop until one reaches one's goal.
know people who can not control, do not hurry to go on shame. Love the smooth harmony, the cornerstone of a happy life is a woman, we must be looking for a good , the right people we. If you want to toss their own, then touch the tender tender spot it.
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13, I graduated from college in the S city development, as will two foreign languages, job opportunities has been Tingduo. A year ago a man know, first love too silly infatuation for him to H Town, find the work of university teachers, and was discouraged. Of course, I also left a hand, the account remains in S city. A year later break up pain, but a year in H town, creating his own world, met friends, spare time to do a lot of work, the accumulation of some customers, earn some money. Recently a friend introduced me to the work of the city of S because their conditions were better, the boss picked a lot of people, decided to hire me. But I hesitated, this a decent job, have the opportunity to meet many foreign business people, there will be many opportunities for development can be assistant jobs, wages around 5000.
or as a springboard for his resume, not low gold content of this work, but think of the money, think it a good city H,, H city of freedom is good. think of location, I feel good S City; think of opportunities that may S City is good; expect to age 27, H S City City did not fit me so much older man. thought of the future in fact do not want to work, to start, do not know where to be more suitable. In short, is a mass of Ma. Thank you, your views are very important to me.
Well, you want a lot, I just want one thing: to look farther, do not just look at immediate, otherwise, there is no great mark. you are a dedication also has the ability of the woman, should not be complacent and should go to more suitable environment for the development.
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14, A 44 divorced women, Beijing, government cadres, recognized the young face, noble, his daughter to college. B Male 39 divorced, looks fairly good temperament, household registration in the field, private enterprises in scientific and technological personnel in the field with his mother, son in elementary school. AB feeling good, to get along for three years, the current cohabitation in the A room. B want to get married, A hesitant, because B would like to marriage my account will be transferred to his son and Beijing (A is a civil servant's account to resolve the issue that separated the two), and the children to Beijing, A can not accept (you can give him and the kids solve the account, but can not accept children live in their own room. In addition, great difficulty boil their children to college, re-training a child, energy and education costs it can not bear). A parent is also firmly opposed to that B is a cupboard. but I believe both A come together because of love, and live longer, and do not want to give up easily.
definitely have plans of marriage, otherwise why should people look for a big 5-year-old sister? You said you re-appearance of a young noble temperament, you There is also an objective physiological age of the so-called deceptive can, but do not fool day. If he economy can, the children move to school and nothing, for the children to study his own thing, if he is a good shade tree you need it, then considered to be a lot, we women do not figure even if the money men, men can not be used when the wallet.
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15, I told him one and a half ago by a movement known, at first sight, left to each other phone numbers, text messages and phone calls a week, dined and feel good. I'm 26, graduated from college, returned home to a small town, not see the mind of the opposite sex together, I feel very lucky to know him, give me boring Many life color. The second date did not know he is married and has a 3-year-old child. I was very disappointed not prepared to contact him, because my morals tell me that I can not destroy people home. Then he gave me did not answer the phone I have, and told him to to live. He also said that from me suddenly realized the meaning of life, and said listen to me, would be good.
that lasted three months, an occasional travel in the We still derailed. then I'll regret it, and told him that we can be friends or lovers, can not have a future (he learned his wife is not satisfied). However, tourism is coming back soon, and he told me to divorce. I ask if it was me, he said it was not. is long past enough. (one year younger than his wife, was introduced, has been working in the small town, but the unit can also, in the unit is a small lead, wearing grade may not like.) later they began divorce, his wife hit him in the phone bill, know my number, call me, his family had found my unit, (our small) so I am very angry. I have to face his family and his wife to say. I gave him a call, rebuke him, and told his family, this alarm can only push me! I had not thought with him, I bent to his family. I Tell him, if you divorce, I told you.
underworld and his wife and threatened to find him, but did not shake him, and he divorced. bidet out of his family, starting from scratch. Fortunately, he is a public institution , welfare is better, we are happy started, I left the original unit, with his own savings to start a business. at first is good, but he did not divorce a family to support him, he too had a long time loneliness, the stock market is not good, he lost in the mess, my business is not very good, economic problems brought us trouble. (I told him before the key is used to it freely, never worry about money, and now situation is different, the feeling tight bar.) so, after a year, basically no savings. his ex-wife knew his situation, even with the substance to seduce him, tell him, if remarried, and she gave him to buy a car (150 000 a).
with me after he is very accustomed to, because his ex-wife to go to the original car was, and I sold the car to do business with. so he always said if there is a car just fine. Yesterday, he even told me that fast Kangbu Zhu, and if more comfortable life back ah. At that time I felt very sad, can not tell what it feels like. Also, I know his ex-wife a secret, she is leading the three units of milk, ( I was studying with her sister on the table, told me.) My boyfriend did not know this, I do not know whether to tell him. But if there is head of the consideration, then the large units, how to find a college educated people as a manager?
Shun Shun sister, please tell me I was not to make a decision now ah? I feel very happy now.
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